For an extended period of time, the world has been given to understand opposites attract, just like the north poles of magnet s are drown to the south poles. Typical knowledge seems to have it that 2 people who are psychologically alike will struggle to sustain their relationship. I leave it to you to settle on the reliability or otherwise of these sentiments. What I do know from personal experience is that a lot men who couldn't care less about horses land up in serious relationships with ladies that are pony fans.
I have this to assert to all blokes who've no particular affection for horses, but find themselves strongly drawn to horse-loving women: be ready to accept second place. In this sort of a situation, you must be capable of large patience, unwavering love and deep understanding. If you're the kind of man who cannot accept being in second place, I suggest that you terminate the relationship at the earliest opportunity, while you can still do so without rancour.
Think about some possible eventualities. You have got everything ready for a weekend fall trip with your other half more than 2 months before. As you are about to finishing stuffing your auto, your partner gets information about fresh hay being cut and sold in some local field. She's been looking for fresh hay, and she hasn't any intention of losing this excellent opportunity. She knows there is a lot of wisdom in storing hay in anticipation of winter. You tell her hay can wait but your weekend trip can't. She begs to differ, and before you realise you are at the hay field wrestling with the loading of bales of hay on to your trailer. Your scheduled vacation has gone on vacation.
I have seen more men than I can remember huff and puff and threaten to blow their other halves down if they 'the better halves' so much as dared to push them 'the hubbies' around, particularly in the interests of some darned horse. I've also seen those self same men eat crow, and masses of it without any seasoning. It seems to be a universal characteristic of horse-loving girls they're sugar and spice and everything that is nice externally, but solid as teak, unbending on the inside, with no give at all if it's a question of their beloved horses. I've seen all of these he-men learn the tough way that there's just no horsing around when it comes to the horse. It is far wiser to live to exercise prudence over courage.
Husbands who are second choices to horses are acutely aware that their wives are ever acceptable to committing time to their horses, at the price of any other engagement. This is more so with better halves and horses who are into shows and events. The experienced other half leaves her hubby behind when she is away at a show, as she knows he'll hit back at her by griping the entire day about boredom. It's far better to let him spend a while watching TV or drinking or fishing with his friends.
It is a sort of you scratch my back, I'll scratch yours quid pro quo.
The queerest thing is that despite all its upheavals, a marriage between a partner indifferent to horses and a wife dedicated to them customarily works out quite well. It is most likely because the partner would rather miss out to a pony than to another man.
I have this to assert to all blokes who've no particular affection for horses, but find themselves strongly drawn to horse-loving women: be ready to accept second place. In this sort of a situation, you must be capable of large patience, unwavering love and deep understanding. If you're the kind of man who cannot accept being in second place, I suggest that you terminate the relationship at the earliest opportunity, while you can still do so without rancour.
Think about some possible eventualities. You have got everything ready for a weekend fall trip with your other half more than 2 months before. As you are about to finishing stuffing your auto, your partner gets information about fresh hay being cut and sold in some local field. She's been looking for fresh hay, and she hasn't any intention of losing this excellent opportunity. She knows there is a lot of wisdom in storing hay in anticipation of winter. You tell her hay can wait but your weekend trip can't. She begs to differ, and before you realise you are at the hay field wrestling with the loading of bales of hay on to your trailer. Your scheduled vacation has gone on vacation.
I have seen more men than I can remember huff and puff and threaten to blow their other halves down if they 'the better halves' so much as dared to push them 'the hubbies' around, particularly in the interests of some darned horse. I've also seen those self same men eat crow, and masses of it without any seasoning. It seems to be a universal characteristic of horse-loving girls they're sugar and spice and everything that is nice externally, but solid as teak, unbending on the inside, with no give at all if it's a question of their beloved horses. I've seen all of these he-men learn the tough way that there's just no horsing around when it comes to the horse. It is far wiser to live to exercise prudence over courage.
Husbands who are second choices to horses are acutely aware that their wives are ever acceptable to committing time to their horses, at the price of any other engagement. This is more so with better halves and horses who are into shows and events. The experienced other half leaves her hubby behind when she is away at a show, as she knows he'll hit back at her by griping the entire day about boredom. It's far better to let him spend a while watching TV or drinking or fishing with his friends.
It is a sort of you scratch my back, I'll scratch yours quid pro quo.
The queerest thing is that despite all its upheavals, a marriage between a partner indifferent to horses and a wife dedicated to them customarily works out quite well. It is most likely because the partner would rather miss out to a pony than to another man.
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articles with other horse lovers http://horsehorses.net/
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