Patience is probably a virtue that you wish you had when it came to getting back together with your girlfriend. The torture of every day apart from her and the anguish that goes along with that. Worrying that with every passing day the chance of her finding someone else and moving on with her life without you increases. With every passing day you feel her drift away from you. You become less and less important to her and you're sure that the odds of her coming back to you grow slim. You search for an answer. You try to solve the riddle and understand what you need to do to get her back before it's too late.
Most men will admit that after a breakup they become more than a little emotional. Even the strongest of us become fearful and anxious when the woman we love rejects us. We become jealous of any guy that comes near her and anxious that she will get into another relationship and forget about us. These emotions and a lack of patience cause us to do sometimes drastic things to shorten the amount of time that it might take to win our ex back. We become desperate due to our fear of loss and we wind up doing things to further destroy our relationship with the one we love.
For instance, you have probably thought long and hard about this. You want to make things right again between you and your girlfriend so you do what comes naturally. That means that you try apologizing at first. You may even mean it. You promise to change. You promise to never do whatever it was that you think caused your breakup or you promise to always do whatever it was that you didn't do that caused your breakup.
Of course, that didn't solve your problem so you came up with a new plan. You felt that if you were kind to her and acted like everything was going to be fine then she would take you back. You possibly even bought her a present. You thought you would be clever and tell her that it was a surprise that you hadn't told her about but that you wanted her to gave it. When none of that worked you broke down in front of her. Perhaps you even shed some tears and begged her to give you another chance. Your love for her is real and your devotion is true but her heart has turned cold towards you.
You might honestly believe that these methods will help you to get back together with your girlfriend but, as you see, these are the typical methods that most guys try when they are frantic to get a girl back. Your instincts are telling you to do all of these things but it is fear that is your motivation. It is that feeling of loss that is making you act desperately. You aren't thinking right and your emotions are controlling you. You need to relax, put yourself in her position and understand where she is coming from. You need to understand what it is that drives a woman to fall in love and what she needs to feel in order to want to get back together with you.
A real plan to get your girlfriend back should be based upon female psychology and what a woman needs to feel in order to overcome the biggest hurdle that confronts you right now which is the fact that she broke up with you. She has told all of her friends and family that she is done with you. That is going to be a big obstacle to overcome so you're going to have to speak to her emotions. Her decision is going to have to be an emotional one. She is going to have to want you more than she might be embarrassed to tell everyone that she is getting back together with you.
Emotions should be at the core of your plan to win her back and they should also be absent in your decision making when it comes to your plan. It is simple to make her fall in love with you again. You did it before. At that time though, you weren't as emotionally charged as you are right now. Your plan needs to be cold and calculating and without emotions. It is only when we men become emotionally involved that we make mistakes after a relationship ends. If you didn't care then it would be simple for you to get her back. You love her though so you're going to have to keep your emotions in check and learn a little patience if you hope to win her over again.
Most men will admit that after a breakup they become more than a little emotional. Even the strongest of us become fearful and anxious when the woman we love rejects us. We become jealous of any guy that comes near her and anxious that she will get into another relationship and forget about us. These emotions and a lack of patience cause us to do sometimes drastic things to shorten the amount of time that it might take to win our ex back. We become desperate due to our fear of loss and we wind up doing things to further destroy our relationship with the one we love.
For instance, you have probably thought long and hard about this. You want to make things right again between you and your girlfriend so you do what comes naturally. That means that you try apologizing at first. You may even mean it. You promise to change. You promise to never do whatever it was that you think caused your breakup or you promise to always do whatever it was that you didn't do that caused your breakup.
Of course, that didn't solve your problem so you came up with a new plan. You felt that if you were kind to her and acted like everything was going to be fine then she would take you back. You possibly even bought her a present. You thought you would be clever and tell her that it was a surprise that you hadn't told her about but that you wanted her to gave it. When none of that worked you broke down in front of her. Perhaps you even shed some tears and begged her to give you another chance. Your love for her is real and your devotion is true but her heart has turned cold towards you.
You might honestly believe that these methods will help you to get back together with your girlfriend but, as you see, these are the typical methods that most guys try when they are frantic to get a girl back. Your instincts are telling you to do all of these things but it is fear that is your motivation. It is that feeling of loss that is making you act desperately. You aren't thinking right and your emotions are controlling you. You need to relax, put yourself in her position and understand where she is coming from. You need to understand what it is that drives a woman to fall in love and what she needs to feel in order to want to get back together with you.
A real plan to get your girlfriend back should be based upon female psychology and what a woman needs to feel in order to overcome the biggest hurdle that confronts you right now which is the fact that she broke up with you. She has told all of her friends and family that she is done with you. That is going to be a big obstacle to overcome so you're going to have to speak to her emotions. Her decision is going to have to be an emotional one. She is going to have to want you more than she might be embarrassed to tell everyone that she is getting back together with you.
Emotions should be at the core of your plan to win her back and they should also be absent in your decision making when it comes to your plan. It is simple to make her fall in love with you again. You did it before. At that time though, you weren't as emotionally charged as you are right now. Your plan needs to be cold and calculating and without emotions. It is only when we men become emotionally involved that we make mistakes after a relationship ends. If you didn't care then it would be simple for you to get her back. You love her though so you're going to have to keep your emotions in check and learn a little patience if you hope to win her over again.
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