A long time ago, I had a teacher give us a holiday pep talk right before Thanksgiving.
Absolutely everything he said was amazing, however there was one piece that truly struck me.
He told us that we must all "accept our condition" if we are going to move forward with our lives.
What did he mean?
He meant that if you can accept the way you are now, you can give yourself access to changing who you want to be.
To take it a few steps further, it means that you truly have to look into all areas of your life and understand why they are how they are - relationships, money, job, body etc.
The other part of the equation is being able to see yourself as you are and not as you think you are.
Why is this so important?
It becomes the solid foundation that you can build your new life upon.
Going through this process of self reflection allows you to create a new life and ditch the old one.
When you can stop avoiding the past and accept the mistakes you have made, you free yourself from something that could be holding you back for the rest of your life.
So, auditing your life...what does that actually mean in terms of implementation?
The best way of doing this is to get a huge piece of paper and write out exactly where you are right now.
This will give you the perfect opportunity to understand exactly what your life looks like at the moment.
When you audit your life, you give yourself the ability to go, "Okay, where do I want to be? What do I see for myself?"
And lastly, you have to envision as far as you can down the line and start working a plan backwards from there.
If you can do this step by step, you have battle plans that will help you move into the future with a specific plan.
This will give you a milestone based path instead of going into something completely blind. Then, out of those big milestones, write little lists underneath of, "What do I know now & what do I need to know?"
Another aspect of the audit is understand what you don't know and what you do know. Making lists of all of the things you need to learn in order to become successful will always be a huge leg up for you.
So take some time to understand exactly where you are at and where you want to be. It will be worth it in the long run.
To help you get from where you are now to where you need to be in the future.
All of this is pure magic.
Absolutely everything he said was amazing, however there was one piece that truly struck me.
He told us that we must all "accept our condition" if we are going to move forward with our lives.
What did he mean?
He meant that if you can accept the way you are now, you can give yourself access to changing who you want to be.
To take it a few steps further, it means that you truly have to look into all areas of your life and understand why they are how they are - relationships, money, job, body etc.
The other part of the equation is being able to see yourself as you are and not as you think you are.
Why is this so important?
It becomes the solid foundation that you can build your new life upon.
Going through this process of self reflection allows you to create a new life and ditch the old one.
When you can stop avoiding the past and accept the mistakes you have made, you free yourself from something that could be holding you back for the rest of your life.
So, auditing your life...what does that actually mean in terms of implementation?
The best way of doing this is to get a huge piece of paper and write out exactly where you are right now.
This will give you the perfect opportunity to understand exactly what your life looks like at the moment.
When you audit your life, you give yourself the ability to go, "Okay, where do I want to be? What do I see for myself?"
And lastly, you have to envision as far as you can down the line and start working a plan backwards from there.
If you can do this step by step, you have battle plans that will help you move into the future with a specific plan.
This will give you a milestone based path instead of going into something completely blind. Then, out of those big milestones, write little lists underneath of, "What do I know now & what do I need to know?"
Another aspect of the audit is understand what you don't know and what you do know. Making lists of all of the things you need to learn in order to become successful will always be a huge leg up for you.
So take some time to understand exactly where you are at and where you want to be. It will be worth it in the long run.
To help you get from where you are now to where you need to be in the future.
All of this is pure magic.
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