Sometimes A Woman Needs A Mother Guide To Sanity

Written By Admin on Minggu, 30 April 2017 | 01.43

By Matthew Murray


There are a lot of challenges in life. Just to name a few, parenthood and careers top the list. We go to school and attend classes to prepare for our career goals. There are no books or classes that are going to prepare you for what comes when you decide to become a mom and dad. The only thing we know is what we are taught. There are parenthood classes that can guide you on how to handle some situations but not all situations are foreseeable. Therefore, someone needs to teach classes on a mother guide to sanity.

The very first challenge is having the child. Many women have a hard time with the fact that their careers are put on hold for at least the first few months of their new babys life. Many women work hard to create a future for themselves by going to college, getting trained in their desired field, or starting their own business. It is medically necessary for the new mother to take a break after giving birth.

After the maternity leave is over, there becomes another challenge which is finding dependable child care. Not only is it hard to find someone to watch the child, it is often very expensive. In order to get back to work and careers, mothers need help making sure the child is safe and is developing social skills.

When the child reaches school age, around four or five years old, another challenge of motherhood will rise. It is often very hard for mothers to let go of the child and allow them to go to school. It often has something to do with keeping them company during the day, so when the child is gone, it leaves the mother alone.

After elementary school and middle school, the child will bring a new set of challenges that most parents do not understand. Peer pressure, school work and hormonal changes turns the sweet child into a stranger. There are ways to help your teenage cope with pressures that seem to help them make the right decisions in this critical time of their lives.

Getting the teen active in after school sports and activities will help teach them the proper way to deal with the pressures of the real world. It is well known that the decisions the teen makes can overtly affect their future. This is true in the areas of school, socializing and careers. Without proper education, the teen may make very bad decisions and get wrapped up in bad things that can change their life.

After high school comes college. That is when things at home change again. Many parents get what is known as the empty nest syndrome. This time of calmness is often shadowed with a need to be with the child and can take quite a long time to get over. The key is to stay busy, stay in touch with the young adult and hope you raised them right so that they will make the correct choices in life.

After college, the life of the child is their own. In a perfect world, they will pursue a career that they have been trained for. It is not unusual for them to move back home with mom and dad while they find their way through life and raise a family of their own




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