Where does confidence come from? Is it something that you are just born with or are we able to build confidence over a period of time? Yes, some individuals just appear to have it. But as someone who had it, lost it entirely, and had to build it all back from the start, I'm going to point out you can do some pretty fascinating things with building some iron faith in your life.
Maybe you have none in your life now, or perhaps you just need some more because you know precisely how much it would aid you with making big decisions. But actually, where does this true confidence come from? There are these little things I like to call momentum builders that help you create confidence over time. Confidence, and the development of enduring confidence comes from the act of sweating the details, the little stuff, the things that most people often overlook. Why are these momentum builders important? Because when you can nail the small details down, and truly knock those out of the park day in and day out, you build yourself some forward movement. You essentially get yourself out of the mud and heading in a direction. Often, going in any direction is better than not moving at all. You actually begin to say, "Okay, I was capable of doing these things and brought these good habits into my life..what else am I truly capable of?" Now you are entering into a place of true magic. You see, when you really nail the little stuff, the bigger things become even more possible. It's when we try to go for the large goal without having the integrity of focusing on the little things that really set us up for failing.
So sweat the small stuff. Really take a little bit of time to target the achievable measure of your life, and over time, start going for larger goals. What if you fail? Take a small step back down and refocus on what you can accomplish, and try and try again. This is a pretty simple path to success. In fact, the quantum leap is absolutely what you should not be focusing on.
Lots of individuals get discouraged when they try something big in life and fail. In reality most folks will try something 3 times and then give up totally. But if you build some significant momentum, you will have the confidence to try something over and again and again till you get it right.
Isn't that a much better way to live life?
Build some major momentum behind you and you are incredibly capable of wonderful things.
But first, you need to sweat the really small stuff.
Maybe you have none in your life now, or perhaps you just need some more because you know precisely how much it would aid you with making big decisions. But actually, where does this true confidence come from? There are these little things I like to call momentum builders that help you create confidence over time. Confidence, and the development of enduring confidence comes from the act of sweating the details, the little stuff, the things that most people often overlook. Why are these momentum builders important? Because when you can nail the small details down, and truly knock those out of the park day in and day out, you build yourself some forward movement. You essentially get yourself out of the mud and heading in a direction. Often, going in any direction is better than not moving at all. You actually begin to say, "Okay, I was capable of doing these things and brought these good habits into my life..what else am I truly capable of?" Now you are entering into a place of true magic. You see, when you really nail the little stuff, the bigger things become even more possible. It's when we try to go for the large goal without having the integrity of focusing on the little things that really set us up for failing.
So sweat the small stuff. Really take a little bit of time to target the achievable measure of your life, and over time, start going for larger goals. What if you fail? Take a small step back down and refocus on what you can accomplish, and try and try again. This is a pretty simple path to success. In fact, the quantum leap is absolutely what you should not be focusing on.
Lots of individuals get discouraged when they try something big in life and fail. In reality most folks will try something 3 times and then give up totally. But if you build some significant momentum, you will have the confidence to try something over and again and again till you get it right.
Isn't that a much better way to live life?
Build some major momentum behind you and you are incredibly capable of wonderful things.
But first, you need to sweat the really small stuff.
About the Author:
Evan Sanders is the author and creator of The Words Of Encouragment, a website dedicated to encouraging others to achieve their dreams and live the best lives possible. So are you ready to start building some self confidence? If so, dive into these self confidence quotes.
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